Monday, May 23, 2011

Yanking the bandaid

The mother sent a message to me this morning. It went like this:

K: I'd like to yank of the bandaid and get on with the day ;) Any results yet? 
Me:  Negative
My gosh I hate this for her. There are three days until the BETA. (Today is 11 days past a 4 day transfer.) Things are just not looking good. In fact, they're looking very grim. Can you imagine spending thousands, double digit thousands, for a negative result? All this on top of not being able to carry the child... It kills me, so I can't imagine how it feels to her. If you've got some to spare, please send her and the father good thoughts if you can.

4 comments:

  1. So many thoughts and prayers are coming your way (your meaning you and the parents). If there was ever a time for a miracle, let this be it!

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  2. So many thoughts and prayers are coming your way (your meaning you and the parents). If there was ever a time for a miracle, let this be it!
    Deb

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  3. This just plain sucks.. its so not fair. They have been through so much and then to have someone like you trying to give them such an amazing, selfless gift.. I hope and pray that this eventually works the way everyone is hoping!!

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Everyone is absolutely entitled to their opinion and I love to hear alternative view points. That's the spice of life! However... please know that if your comment is in any way (1)derogatory toward the intended parents, (2)lacks common courtesy/tact, or (3)provides an uneducated stance it will be moderated. Difference of opinion is fine. Stupidity, not so much. Positivity - it does a body good! :)